Tuesday, August 9

Jealousy

Jealousy, most of us feel it at some time or other. Some people experience it more strongly than others and some even let jealousy consume them. Sometimes the feeling is justified and at other times it isn’t. It’s an ugly emotion, both for the one feeling it and for the person at the other end.

For most of us, jealousy isn’t as all consuming as that, however, many of us do have moments when we feel out of control. You say something to your partner that you know is unjustified, but you just can’t help yourself. If your partner has cheated on you, these feelings can intensify and it is possible that you will never trust the person again. Along with that comes jealousy. Sometimes it helps to have a plan of action in this situation. Figure out what you will do if your partner does it again, let your partner know what you will do, and if it happens, do it. Once you have made a firm decision on the consequences and are done vacillating between should I stay or should I go, it is sometimes possible for the relationship to continue normally. That is assuming that the other person is not going to cheat again and you are determined to let it go and not open old wounds every time you argue.

Emoticons

Bakit kaya ang daming gumagamit ng emoticon sa IM's,text o kaya sa email?Minsan ang emoticon hindi maganda kasi minsan ginagamit mo lang ito para kumuha ng attensyon ng ibang tao and for me its so unfair.
Nang dahil lang sa emoticon minsan namimiss understood pa ng kausap mo ito then magiging sanhi pa ito ng away.Minsan naman gumagamit ang tao ng emoticon para mapatawad sila kahit hindi naman sila sincere sa mga sinasabi nila..Ang emoticon minsan hindi nakakatulog,minsan lumalala pa ito sa sitwasyon ng bawat isa.Kaya akohate ko gumamit ng emoticon kasi feeling ko hindi naman siya exact feeling na nararamdaman ko then namimis-interpret pa ng ibang tao.

love online

Do you believe in Online Love relationship?If that so,then why lots of Online Dating Sites found in the internet?Some people may believe in that but some are not.Thru online internet you can find your destiny partner for a lifetime.Isn't it great??,Online dating site is not that bad at all.Some people use that site for good and some people use it for bad.Anyway,In my own opinion,I do believe in that but I didn't mean that all members in the dating sites have a genuine feeling for each others.As you can see, a lot of foreigners have their "pinay" wife.so inshort PINAY beauty ROCKS!!

    I admire some "Pinays" who are  faithful  to their boyfriend/husband because Even if they are far from each others,they can still manage  their time to talk to their love-ones.You see,distance is not a hindrance for the two people who love each others.

Age doesn't matter

When you love it doesn’t matter how age is she/he as long as you both understands each other and  treat each other special. Don’t mind the other people who criticize you.Age is just numbers but it not necessarily mean that if your partner has a big gap in your age then you can’t have each other as a couple.
In our society.Some people against to the “young-old couple” but they didn’t even think positive reason why  “young-old couple”  still stay for each others hands.It’s simple because they both love each other regardless of age and gap  they have.
So before you criticize the “young-old couples” you should better ask yourself why they stick to each others and compare your past relationship why it never lasts….
As the old saying goes,
“love knows no boundaries”

Make-up can cover your imperfection

I always use make-up to cover my flaws.I have a scar upper with my lip due to my past  surgery and I just putted a face powder or a foundation on it  to cover the marks.It really works.It gain me confidence whenever I put make-up on my scar.I’m brave enough to face the people around me.Brave in the sense people will not tease you in their look.We all know some people are laughing or talking behind our back whenever they see something unique defect to us.Sometimes I mind and sometimes I don’t mind them it depends on my moods.Anyway,I rather put a make-up to my defect  than to be not aware that some people are talking behind my back.I don’t use a lot of make-up just little to cover my flaws.When I’m at home,I don’t wear make up at all because people around me knows my imperfection already.I don’t wear make-up just to hide myself  to others.I just use it to protect myself from the negative thoughts of  others.Now whenever I go I see to it I look presentable and respectable.See,just a little make-up you can gain confident.

Student Blues

I miss being a student.I miss wearing my uniform everyday except Wednesday because its our washday meaning we can wear civilian.I miss all my friends.Everyday we do our bonding session,if we have free time.We usually go to the malls after our class.I miss doing my homework,projects and other school paper works.I miss the nervousness  whenever my professor do a random question and called  our last name.I miss reviewing my notes.I really love to write on a white board even if my hand written is not that good.Checking papers after our exam.Teasing with my classmates is fun but not necessarily mean we hurt each other thru words.I miss the long line in the cashier before the exam week.I miss talking to my friendly professor who are always there to entertain our questions whenever there are lesson that we don’t understand.I miss the guard telling my violations improper uniform and not wearing my Id.I miss asking yellow paper to my classmates whenever we have unexpected quiz. I miss going to school riding a jeep and lastly I miss my allowance.I miss everything but then I’m no longer a student  and wishing someday I can do it again with my newly found classmates.

Can we fall to the person we like?

Can we fall to the person we really like?It can be but there is no assurance or guarantee that the person we want has the same feelings with what we have.So we must be ready for the consequences that might happen in the end.

In my case I really like him as my lover but then again I don't know if he like me too.Honestly its hard because every time I say "I love you " he doesn't reply "I love you too" instead he just replied me a smile emoticon.It hurts but then again I need to accept the fact that the feeling that he had for me is not enough to enter or to start a relationship.

I can't demand his time or anything  because in the first place we don't have a relationship just FRIENDS.Ohhh!!that's sad but I need to look at the bright side.At least I know he has no commitment with the other girl.So,I'm still waiting for the possibility that he can be in love with me.I need to be patience while waiting and I think In time all my waiting will be worth and work it.


Just what he said"just relax,take a deep breathe inhale...exhale and everything will be alright"